Hiya Pikes Peak Wedding Bloggeteers!
Y’know, providing couples with the stress-free wedding is more of an art than a science, but there are certain guidelines (for brides especially) that just make sense. In that spirit, we offer up the following blog <They don’t actually use the word “spam,” but we’d just as soon not be indexed by the web crawlers under the word they DO use!>
http://2000dollarwedding.com/2008/07/from-conception-to-reception.html
Yes, we know that these folks are avid DIYers, and advise against purchasing even our (we think) reasonably-priced wedding package, but all the same, we identify with their sense of rebellion against the push-push-push of the whole wedding industry. We too want you to have a stress-free wedding. We want you to be present-minded and enjoy your wedding day. We especially like the following advice point no. 2, from the 2000dollarwedding.com site:
“(2) Moderate Your Wedding Spam Viewing <edited slightly>
Don’t spend too much time reading wedding magazines and blogs. Yes, they give you ideas. Yes, they are fun. But mainly they just make you doubt things you’ve already decided on.”
Amen and LOL! “Wedding Spam!” Ain’t it th’ truth!
We like to think we offer a pretty and elegant garden wedding package for pretty close to that $2000 mark (not, of course, counting the wedding dress). We too get frustrated when some loon at a Bride-Shoppe in the mall sells the bride (or her Mom) on turban-wearing ring bearers with ostrich-feather fans, matching light-sabres decorated with pink and blue tulle for the bride and groom, unity-candelabras with mini-skyrocket sparklers that ignite at the words “I do,” and god knows what else! It’s all just one more thing for the bride to worry about.
(Actually, the light sabres idea sounds cool, but you get the point.)
I’ll leave you with point no. 1 of the Wedding Advice offered by the 2000dollarwedding.com bloggers:
“(1) Just Breathe
Planning a wedding is stressful. Your expectations are high and the stakes feel high even higher. But remember: No matter what happens with the details (the weather, the vendors, the food) you will be married in the end. And anything that goes wrong will make a great story.”
True enough, even for a Pikes Peak Wedding. Plus, you should keep in mind the things that will go right because you’re calm and in the moment. You don’t need to think about such moments. You don’t need to plan them. You need to be there.
It’s our job to capture the moment.
Best,
Mike
Blue Skies Inn